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This dating love advice is the result of my dating experiences of the past 5 years. I've gone through approaching thousands of women who I didn't know, hundreds of phone numbers, and countless dates. The main motivation for me was to become truly great at dating. If you're just looking to find a partner who will be there for you, I guarantee you that you can accomplish that. Although it will be simple to do, it won't be easy. This will require a large commitment, and dedication on your part.

It will take some time before you find a girlfriend. You will need to go through some failure as well. That's ok though, cause' this is not a Hollywood story. This is real life, and good things don't happen without hard work and persistence. In other words, you'll need to work on yourself before you will be able to find that special someone and attract them.

This is a step by step guide that will clear up the process that will FOR SURE lead to improving your dating life. I guarantee that you will get a girlfriend if you follow this process.

1.) Get your hands on some dating material. When I was starting out I made the mistake of reading everything I could get my hands on. This led to "information paralysis". I kept on re-reading different theories on what works and what doesn't instead of simply going out and talking to girls to see for myself. I've read dozens of books on this subject and I highly recommend John Alexander's "Become an Alpha Male". There's a link to a review on the bottom of the page. I will emphasize that you have to USE the skills that you learn about dating love advice.

2.) Decide on the goal you want to achieve. It can be, "finding a girlfriend that I have a genuine connection with". Or it could be going on 2 new dates every week. Anything is good as long as it inspires you to achieve it. Commit to this goal for a long term period of 12 months MINIMUM. Yes that is a long time, and yes it will be challenging. That is why you must commit to it long term. You will succeed if you persist on a long term basis.

3.) Set up daily goals that will lead to you accomplishing your main goal. Some examples are: have a conversation with 5 girls every day, talk on the phone to 5 girls, set up a date with 5 girls every week, etc. Make sure you keep track of all these numbers. The numbers will show you if you're improving, or if you're slacking!

In case you're not slacking, but still not seeing the results you truly want, a way to boost your results is to get "Become an Alpha Male" by John Alexander. It talks about specific things you need to change in your life in order to attract beautiful women naturally.

4.) Don't give up no matter what happens. If getting a girlfriend is the most important thing for you to do right now, there is no reason why you can't do it. Doesn't matter how you look, doesn't matter if you have money or not. Attracting women is a skill. Just like playing basketball or drawing.

As a side note, I'd like to mention that I've coached several people with the above method. 9 out of 10 people achieved what they wanted to achieve. The 1 out of 10 person that didn't deviated from one of the above points, or gave up. This means that you're guaranteed to succeed if you stick to the above plan!

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